Apr 28, 2008

Another horror story!!

Arghh!! I hate my day today. My head is pounding, my nose is leaking (Running Nose lah) , my body is aching and Aunty Flo decided to visit me pulak! Ai!! With so 'many excitement', how to work lah..(Hehe padahal alasan want to blog!)

Anyway, I decided to continue the story of MY SECOND DELIVERY..which I told you last time was a HORROR story..heheheeee not really lah! There is nothing really scary about it. It was only me having that kind of feeling. Different people different story, so don’t assume all delivery are like mine.

I warn you..my story will be super long today, so grab the popcorn and your milo ping while reading this post. Otherwise you might fall asleep while reading this. So here goes my story...

Back to November 2006, my due date (EDD) was supposed to be on 29th Nov. Took my maternity leave 1 day after my head was stitched due to the stupid car hood which decided to land on my head. Well, the main reason I took my leave earlier was because I was scared my baby will come out while I was at office. (Heard a lot of stories about people unexpected 2nd delivery..one of my friend delivered her baby at home! Nah!! No time to go to hospital pun). I was like 10 months pregnant that time. Haha What to do, I’m a very petite woman mah! (I’m sooo huge that time)

So the waiting at home for my baby to come out from my huge tummy made me crazy everyday. The Brax Hick Contraction I was having was really..really bad. Sakit oh!! Tunggu punya tunggu..baby still nicely snugged in my womb. In my last check-up, the best Doctor of all, Dr Laily, my gynae told me that I might have a difficulties delivering my baby if she continues gaining rapid weight. That time, baby estimaated weight was 3.45kg. If she gained another few hundred grams, I might deliver a 3.8kg baby which I know will be crazy. Kuyak menguyak nanti di bawah. I only have 1 choice that time. INDUCE BIRTH. Adeh! If only I know it will be soooooo painful, I don’t mind to wait for daughter for few more days oh.

After a lengthy discussion with hubby, we decided that I will have an induce birth. On the 1st of December 2006, I (of course with hubby lah) went to the birth center to do the last check up on my baby. (Whether she will be strong enough to be forced out from my body) Everything was OK..so Dr had her green light for me to be induced. She explained to me that once the Prostaglandin (Meds for induction) inserted, I will have my 1st contraction after 3-6 hours!! (DUH!!!) . So ubat pun masuk lah at 5.10pm. I was reading my magazine and eating my Spicy Nasi Goreng Kampung when I had my first contraction which was quite strong. It was only 5.40pm that time! Uwahhhh!! Tidak sempat pun makan habis my fried rice. Though the interval of my contractions was 7 or 8 minutes apart, it was enough to make me froze every time it came. (Oh that time..hubby went to office for a while..ada hal konon!! Sempat lagi!!!!) I called hubby around 6.10pm telling him that my contractions were getting stronger every minutes (3-6 hours konon!!) At 6.20pm..I was really in pain..PUNYA MAIN SAKITT!!!!!! Buzz the nurse for assistance immediately. When she checked on me, I was already 4cm dilated. I was groaning in pain that time and hubby wasn’t even with me. He reached there at 6.45 when I was wheeled to the labour room. (Sempat lagi checking the time bah! Hehe). Glad that he managed to be by my side before I deliver my baby. If not, I will for sure give him a hell for not being with me.

In the labour room, I was sooooo in pain that I almost cry. Dr. Laily asked me whether I want any pain relief; she suggested a pethadine to me. (No epidural because I was almost fully dilated that time). Can you imagine I was in pain and still sempat asked her was there any side effects if I took the Pethadine..hehee when she told me yes, my baby will be drowsy once she is out, I decided against it. I don’t want to have a ‘mabuk’ baby to hold la. Anyway, I was already 7cm dilated that time. So nothing can be done anymore, all I can do was groaned and say..Adoii!! Sakitnya!! DR. Laily keep telling me ..yes!! it is painful. Hehe During Son last time, I still had the laughing gas @ entonox (spelling??) to lessen the pain mah. The pain was there, but I can tolerate it.

During the last 30mins of my delivery, I almost break the IV Syringe. Punya kuat I held the Bed Barrier. The nurses had to pry my hand opened or otherwise I will fell from the bed and cracked my head. Haha!! Sadis!! If you were wondering where my hubby was that time, he was next to me. What he did, smiling like an idiot and keep telling me, Sekejap lagi tu!! Adeh!! He had the gut to laugh at me some more. Punya I meradang that time. Luckily my legs were already bound that time. If not, I for sure will give him a sound kick.(Maybe he doesn’t know what he should do bah tu, that’s why he laughed..adakah macam tu?? hmmmmm)

Anyway, the last minute of my delivery was super intense. I had no time to breathe or rest myself from the effects of contractions. Just when I thought to relax from a very strong contraction, another one coming followed by another one and another one. Until one point I really could not stand it anymore, I try to push my baby out. WARN: Never push your baby out before the time or else you risk having a very deep and long tear down there. I knew one mother who pushed her baby out before the right time and had a tear all the way to her anus! MATAI oh like that!! How to walk?? Ok I’m digressing…so my last two minutes was the easiest part of my delivery. One hard push and my baby were out!! HORRAY!!! It was like heaven. The pain was gone instantly!! I was laughing when the Doctor and Nurses said “WAH!!! KUATNYA!! One push terus come out baby. Fuiyohhh!!”

What I asked the Dr when she held my baby?? “Doctor..Baby Girl???” ekeke I already knew my baby is a girl, but mau juga kena confirm bah. Hehe..anyway, daughter was only 3.25kg and not 3.45kg as estimated before and because of that, she only cause a very minor tear on me which required only 2 stitches. Besar lagi the injury I had on my head (that time pun belum baik lagi my kepala bocor..hehee).

40 minutes after I had my baby, I was up to the nursery to see my new baby. Gilos lah the delivery. However, the best part of it, I only had to suffer for about 2 hours ++ compare to my son’s delivery which I was in pain for 30 hours (I can tolerate the pain much better than the induced labour). If you are thinking how painful was a labour process, just think of a toothache x 10. Lebih kurang macam tu lah..heheheee



See..how big already my daughter now

Ok! I better stop now..or else I cannot stop typing. Sepa-sepa yang already ketakutan read my post..ish!! Lek bah..it was only my experiences. Nothing related to other people’s delivery. And remember..My delivery was an Induce Labour without any pain relief and It was only 2 ½ hour process. That’s why lah sakit gila babas. So..lek lah! heheee

14 comments:

little inbox said...

Ooih, long long punya cerita. It's actually a precious experience ler.

zenoED said...

kadusmama -- thanks for sharing.

cindy said...

I have to be honest. I skipped a lot of part in this post.. coz I dare not read anything that has to do with "beranak". Keekekke. Eversince my cousin told me her "horror" story, I takut oledi! :P

Kadus_Mama said...

Lil Inbox ~ I warn u it will be long mah..heheee thats why ask u to prepare popcorn n milo ping..

Zeneod ~ You are welcome

Cindy ~ Adedeh!! kesian ko kan..beranak like horror story pulak.. :)

urang ranau said...

eii takut sia, terus pening kepala sia baca ni post ko kadusmama...cpt2 mana minyak kapak sia...duh2 (lama lg la sia mo kawin ni kalau begini) ;p btw thanks for sharing that wonderful experience to all of us here... (wonderful??? tkt sia)

Kadus_Mama said...

urang ranau ~ ahaha!! telampau lah bah sampai pening! ekekeeee siok bah sharing2 nie..at least lelaki2 di luar sana tau juga lah sikit apa macam kesakitan masa beranak nie..haha

Ornest said...

On hubby side ah.. sa 3 kali ikut bini masuk wad bersalin. Memang kesian juga tingu bini kesakitan. Of course yang anak sulung yang lama sikit pertarungan dia tapi cukup mangajar kita betapa besarnya pengorbanan seorang ibu. Klu ada anak yg derhaka sm ibu dia, mmg besarlah dosa dia dan patut diajar :D

Kadus_Mama said...

Ornest ~ Nah!! 3 kali ko ikut ur wife?? bagus tu..orang cakap when u see ur wife mau beranak..baru u know how she fought for her life to bring another life to this world kan..anyway, ko tia takut kah nampak ur wife beranak?? hehee 3 kali pulak tu..

carolinebabby said...

waduh waduh TT...saya terpaksa ambil ephidural oh membaca ko punya blog ni...haaaahaaaa....masing2 ada pengalaman sendirilah kan.....mau beranak lagi??? saya mau triplets oh...

Kadus_Mama said...

B ~ hahaha!! ko yang ambi epi ah..beranak?? ish tingu lah! hehe takut sudah..ko mau triplet???adeh sepa mau jaga..??

Choc Mint Girl said...

Terketawa pulak sya baca part si hubby ko tu hahaha... Tapi tidak jugak la sya takut dingar. Smua orang bilang sakit, but diaorang dapat gone through the pain, kenapa pulak sya nda dapat?! Aisey! Mo kasi semangat diri sendiri bai ni, tau2 dalam hati hahahaha...

Kadus_Mama said...

Choc mint ~ Ko tau la laki sia tu macam mana cuz, blank2 jak..hahaha betul juga cakap ko..manada orang cakap beranak tidak sakit kan? heheee ko ok jak bah tu..(nah sia pun kasi semangat ko!!)

Ornest said...

Kadus_Mama, 1st time tu yg sa rasa takut sbb ndak tau apa mau di'expect'. Masa dlm wad bersalin tu, masa mau monitor itu contraction sa rasa mcm tingu lumba kuda pula hahaha... So bila ada contration, punya gembira nampak tu graf naik :) Itu nurse bilang sm kami kalau masih bulih senyum2 tu belum lagi mau beranak.. Sekali sampai part yang dakat2 mau beranak sudah, barulah bini kesakitan. Hilang sdh senyum. Trus minta pain killer tapi sikit sj kesan dia sbb bini tetap kesakitan. Masa itulah sa paling takut.. mcm2 keluar dari mulut.. sambayanglah.. kata2 perangsanglah dsb.. Tapi bila sdh beranak, punya happy nampak tu baby.. kiut lagi tu hehehe... hilang semua rasa sakit dan takut :)

Yang 2nd and 3rd child, ndak berapa takut sdhlah :D

Sumandak said...

eeeee...KadusMama very scary la!Harap2 when the time come, I'll be ready..hehe