Apr 18, 2008

The adventure of my second pregnancy

Why I want to tell about my second pregnancy?? Because it is more adventure than my first one mah! I hope nobody will become scared or terrified after reading this post.

My second pregnancy was a planned one. My son was already two years old when I had a very strong feeling to have another baby. One attempt and I managed to get pregnant. LUCKY me!

I was hoping my pregnancy will be as smooth as sea breeze, but NO..It was not as what I was hoping for. It was my third week of pregnancy that I knew I was pregnant (5 days before my actual menses..hehee semangat check mah!!). But I don’t believe the Home Kit Test, I’ve checked another 5 times to confirm whether I was really pregnant! I even went to see my Gynae to confirm it. That’s how paranoid I was to make sure I’m really pregnant that time. What to do, no sign of pregnancy at all. No morning sickness, no painful boobs, still small waist (24inch only oh) and no nothing.

Anyway I only experience my first sign of pregnancy in my 7th week of pregnancy. I started to feel dizzy every morning that I lost appetite to eat anything. Well, I only can eat spicy nasi lemak I think. Hehee My morning sickness will strike either in early morning or late evening which was bad because I had to go to work. I throw up almost every morning that my yellowish bile liquid or whatever it is, was happy to make an exit through my esophagus. Feel like want to mati saja every morning muntah. So this vomiting episode lasted until the fifth month of my pregnancy. I was really suffering that time.

There was one day (5 months pregnant) I was craving to eat ‘Cucur Udang’. If only you can imagine the craving power, The I MUST EAT CUCUR UDANG feeling!!!! I asked my younger sister to go to the nearby shop to buy me the CUCUR UDANG ADABI. She told me “Ish!! Malas lah!” Since I want to eat it very badly, I went to the shop myself. Little that I know there will be an accident happens. I was walking down to the shop and didn’t see the hole in front of me. Oh yeah!! My kaki masuk the hole and I fell really hard on the road. Siap tegolek lagi! GOD!!! I was really scared that time. I went up and saw my elbow, palms and toes were bleeding. All I can think was, my baby. But BODOH me, I still went to the shop and bought the cucur!! Bodoh or not, you think?? When I reached home, I told my sister that I fell. Seeing my bleeding hand, she was really shocked! Her fault lah didn’t help me kan! I was tormenting her and make her feel really bad and guilty as hell that time! Hahahaa I keep showing her my injuries and telling her the vivid details on how I fell on the road. With a sad face, I told her, I hope nothing bad will happen to my baby! Of course she was blaming herself lah. She kept saying I ‘kempunan’ want to eat cucur. And she had the guilty face all day!

Luckily nothing happened to my baby (daughter). I went to do a check-up the next day and Doctor told me, everything is OK! FUH!! After that incident, whenever I feel like I want to eat something, my sister will be happy to help me to go the nearby shop! Ekekee


This photo taken when i was 7 months ++ pregnant, I was fat like a cow when i was 9 months pregnant! ekeke

That’s not all the injury I had during my pregnancy. In my third trimester (1 week before my due date), I was checking the water in my radiator when the front hood suddenly fell on my head. PUNYA MAIN SAKIT!!!!!!!! But I can only managed to say "OUCH!!". The second blood starting to drip from my head, I knew the injury was not goin to be good! Hubby was not around (he was attending a function that time), all people in my office already went back. There were only two of our general workers that time. I cover my head with my white cardigan, called the workers to check the severity of my injury. With a calm face, one of the workers, Shaidulla, told me it was only a minor scratch on my head. He helped me to clean the blood and put a handyplast on the injury.

So ok lah, I drove back home after that. My head was pounding that time. It was really hurt. Kepala kena hempap you know!!! It was half way home when I adjusted the handyplast on my head, sekali GUSHHHHH, blood punya main banyak on my face. I knew it was not just a scratch on my head. I thought I must have torn my head and my brain was going to pop out soon. Hehehe negative thinking betul! One hand on my steering and one hand holding the cardigan on my head, I managed to reach home without any other obstruction. Ya lah..who knows I banged other people’s car..one hand driving in the heavy jam mah!

Wah!! So long already my entry kah?? hehe nevermind lah..continue story.. I reached home with a blood soaked cardigan. Can you imagine my In-Laws reaction?? Hahahaa I was soooooo calm opening our house door. FIL and MIL was having dinner that time. Both of them were really shocked and horrified setengah mati that time. Hehehee I didn’t show any emotion la. Muka selamba answered them that the hood fell on my head! My MIL urged me to see doctor. I told her, I’ll check the injury first, if it needs a doctor, then I will see the doctor then! I went to bathroom to wash the blood. Uiyooo..it was crazy. Blood covering the whole floor in my bathroom. Punya main banyak darah!!! I told sis about the injury, and she forced me to see doctor that night. I punya jahat.. scold her some more, asked her who is going to drive me to the doctor? (actually my MIL can drive but I totally forgot about her…ekekeke). End up, sis companied me to the nearby clinic and help me to hold the towel on my head. When I reached the clinic, the Doctor who checked my head grimaced when she saw my head. Yep!! It wasn’t a scratch. I tore my head. Hahahaaa (eh why I’m laughing here???). That night, I received 4 stitches after Doctor jabbed my head!! Fuhhhhh…nasib baik I cepat go to clinic..if not no more blood already!

The next day, I still go to work for one last day. I took my maternity leave early mah. My long leave was enough for me to get the rest for 'kepala bocor' recovery. So what you think?? Adventure or not my second pregnancy? Hehe wait until I tell you about my second delivery. Lagi horrifying!!

14 comments:

urang ranau said...

buli bikin filem oh ni..tp bikin takut juga ni experience2 ko time 2nd time pregnant.bah apa lagi mana yg no no3??? hehehe???

Kadus_Mama said...

urang ranau~ nda lah bah cepat mau no.3..tunggu besar dulu my daughter!

FredDass said...

Fuyooo.. Scary owhh.. Macam mana la my wife-to-be suffer ni nanti..Tapi wife-to-be to belum ada lagi la, still searching and browsing.. Huhuhu.. Masih muda lg ni, belum puas hidup membujang.. Ooopsss..

Owhh ya I'd learnt about craving among pregnant mother in my Nutrition Antropology subject.. What I'd learnt is that when the mother craving on certain foods means that the mother is deficient on certain nutrient which is mostly can be found on that particular food that she craved.. It's the scientific explanation la..

But craving is actually more on psychological site la.. Even there are mothers who carve on mud, ciggarate ash and all unconsumable things..

Kadus_Mama said...

Fred..hehe browsing kah?? All the best with ur hunting..
Yep! Craving for unusual stuff is called pica bah tu..and it is true..memang iron deficiency menyebabkan dorang mau makan that stuffs..but me not craving for lumpur lah..only makanan yang boleh di makan!

cindy said...

Eee.. sampai today sia takut whenever people talk about pregnancy... apalagi when it comes to the beranak part!! :O

Kadus_Mama said...

cindy~hahaa! nah tingu ko takut sudah! aiseh!! i will soften the gruesome part of labour if i ever blog about it lah next time..hehee

Choc Mint Girl said...

Berdebar2 jantung sya baca ko punya experience ni, cuz. Tulah si Inesha tu independent dan selamba jak. :D

Kadus_Mama said...

Tu la Cuz..masa inesha, macam2 hal oh sia pregnant! ada2 jak..hehee

Val Aziz said...

Itulah tu the guys ingat senang ja bikin anak kan..yg tukang angkat n beranak ni yg torture...tu pun boleh lagi buat dek sja kalu kita kasi bgn suruh bikin susu kan.. My 3rd preg pun i fell down the stairs, slipped on wet floor n tripped a cable in my boss's office. Bikin kabak2 sja kan..nasib teda apa2. Anyway congrats on ur successful delivery n beautiful bb girl...

Rafiq said...

wow! gila la, kalah Indiana Jones macam ni! tough mama la you ni. but a jab on the head? mcm mana tu? cannot imagine la. bole itu hood jatuh on your head. *tsk*tsk*tsk*.. can't wait for you next adventurous sequel, your delivery!

carolinebabby said...

patutlah anak anak kau starring gaban sabab ikut gaya kau..haaahaaa...nampak darah pun relaks saja kalau saya sudah pingsan 3 hari...

Kadus_Mama said...

val~SOKONG!! haha ingat senang ka mau angkat anak nie kan??
wah!! ur 3td pregnancy pun macam horror juga..ish! scary oh jatuh2 masa pregnant nie..

rafiq~ekekee indiana jones?? Tu jab untuk kasi bius saja bah tu..if kena stich kepala macam tu saja..mati sia nanti! and itu hood jatuh because itu stand telepas..boleh juga kan!

B~ahaha bukan masa isaac yang my two accidents tu..masa inesha..hehee pingsan 3 hari?? ahahahaaa

emelda said...

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...bikin takut juga kau ni tau! Gila eh! Hmm maybe you should just keep the delivery part??? Pleaseeee....nanti sia tia mau ada anak ni..some more Daniel has been putting this idea of having 6 kids in my head! Mulau ka tidak tu you think? I told him if you want 6 the last 2 will have to come out from his own BELLY! ingat sia apa machine delivering baby ka?Cis!

Kadus_Mama said...

Mel~haha! I will soften the gruesome part..jan takut! 6 anak?????? atukoiiiiii..ingat ko machine kah? hahaha fair and square..suruh Dan beranak 3 lah..hahahaa