Sep 3, 2008

Its not easy to be a mommy!

Nothing really special happened today..My day has been ok so far; well don’t count me screaming early in the morning today. Hehehe!! Sometimes my kids do try my patience! Like today, I woke up at 7.15am, preparing to work as fast as I can and need to prepare son to school as well. At 7.45am, I woke son’s up only to receive the answer “NO!!!!! I don’t want to go to school, I still want to sleep!!!”. I might tolerate son’s behavior if he is not doing it everyday. But today, I went ‘Kaboooommmmmm’ when he gave me that answer again. First, he doesn’t want to go to the Day Care Center anymore, and now he doesn’t want to go to school????? I hate it when I have to raise my voice early in the morning to get son ready to school. Imagine I have to say “NOW!!!!!!” to get him to wake up. *sigh*. Just when I was preparing son’s breakfast and drink to bring to school, daughter woke up and started to wail (Full volume, mind you!!). She demanded her milk and was crying for me to carry her around. Arghhhhhhh!!! Imagine, me, still not fully ready to work, with son not wanting to wake up and daughter wailing for her milk. I don’t know what keep me sane after having to deal with a very hectic life for a month now. Well, just imagine this situation: Daughter : *just woke up* MOMMY!!!!!!!!!!! UWAHHHHH!!!!! (Daughter crying) Me : *running inside the room* Yes! Mommy here.. Daughter : I want milk *half closed eyes* Me : Ok!! Wait for a while..Mommy go to the kitchen first, ok! Daughter : NO!!!!! (Crying again) Me : What happened??? Daughter : N’cha don’t want to stay here.. I carried daughter to the kitchen and make a bottle of milk for her. Me : Nah, Inesha’s milk.. Daughter : I DON’T WANT MILK!!!!! Me : (Ngrrrrrrrr!!!!) Why??? Ok! Ok! Mommy drinks your milk??? Daughter : Ok *sobbing* Me : *pretended to drink the milk* Daughter : MOMMY!!!!!! I WANT MY MILK!!!!! (Cry super loud this time) Me : *rushed to her side* Here..here! Drink your milk.. Daughter : I DON'T WANT MILK!!!!!! And daughter has succeeded making me insane early in the morning! I don’t know why son and daughter are so clingy to me now. I know I’m their mother, but how come they didn’t fuss a lot when they are with Daddy or Grandmother. Why me??? *tsk! Tsk! Tsk!* . Maybe I should stop working and spend more time with my kids? I might get bored after few months at home but hey, I can study while caring my kids, right? With so many available online courses, I can pick whatever courses I want. Maybe I can become a medical assistant?? Hehe!! What say you?? I know there are medical assistant schools online available now. I only need to study for 6 – 8 weeks (or maybe longer), and I can get the Medical Assistant Certificate. The course fees aren’t that expensive too. Some only cost around $645. Cheap huh?? It will be a great bonus for me to spend more time with my kids, learn something new at the same time and become a medical assistant in the future. With the flexible program schedule, I can always have my class anywhere, anytime. Hehe Interesting, isn't it?? *start dreaming* Well, will see if I’m going to be a SAHM soon. I know I’m not ready yet, but if my kids really need me to be with them, I might change my path from working mom to Stay-at-home-mommy! Just wait and see…..
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21 comments:

Choc Mint Girl said...

Cuz, apalagi me, belum ada anak pun oredi thinking of WFH (Working From Home). :)

-Gina G- said...

Hi KM,

Now u're having the 'Dilemma of a Working Mother', hehe, maybe u can be a full time mother@full time blogger? hehe just a thought.

Sia di Damansara Perdana, i think u should be around this area juga kan?

maslight said...

*giggles. reminds when when I was a young girl. My mum usually wakes us up, and I didn't have problem waking up. My mum's voice OMG! It's so nyaring that my ear sakit XD

So yeah, I gotta thank her for that, being able to wake up on time as I grew older XD

And yes, being a mum is not easy, u gotta please everyone and tend to their needs.

*respect

mell f said...

I do love kids,and i want many of them in the future but thinking of how to handle them drives to rethink about that. Hm..

Being a mom is already a tough job, apa lagi working mom. I salute you moms out there!

jppmom said...

same scenario here & they really makes us nuts kan ;) btw, I got an award for u, check my blog :)

Nick Phillips said...

I know how that feels. The boys can get on wifey's nerve early in the morning too and when she starts screaming at them, even I pun takut ... LOL!

It ain't easy being a mommy, that's for sure :D

Kadus_Mama said...

choc mint girl ~ Hehehehee!! Siok bah staying at home cuz..

-gina g- ~ Not ready to be a full time mommy yet..wait until i can make enough money from blogging..hehehee
Eh damansara perdana??? very near saja tu.. :) me dekat2 that area juga..

maslight ~ heheheee!!! I think i scream also very loud!! The whole apartment can hear me, you know!

Kadus_Mama said...

Mell ~ I used to have this thinking to have many..many kids of my own..but now, 2 also give me headache already!! hahaha need to think hard before adding another new family member oh!!

jppmom ~ Hehehe!! I'm sure our kids make us nuts..what more you with josh and ur twins..pengsan!!
Will collect my award soon.. :)

nick phillips ~ Wahahahahaha!!! Thank god i'm not the only one screaming early in the morning!!Wifes are sometimes very scary huh?? with us screaming early in the morning!

mama mia said...

hard to please everone's needs kan. but we'll survive..Cheers for being a mom!

urang ranau said...

hmm teringat mama sia who is also a working mum, whenever our maid balik kmpg , then the problem start. 5 of us, dunno hw my mum survive. Kadus_mama, kudos to you and to all working mum out there. Tabik spring.

Ornest said...

thanks Joy.. that goes to my wife too hehehe..

Betul tu KadusMama, bukan senang mau handle tu budak2.. My eldest daughter pun ada masa malas mau pigi sikul. Susah mau kasih bangun. My wife has to tariak marah2 barulah our daughter bangun pi cuci muka, berus gigi n mandi.. Kasian jg sia tingu but terpaksa bah.. klu ndak, makin bertabiat pula dia nanti :D

Pasal susu tu, have to dengar butul2 apa yg dorang mau.. my son for instance, klu dia bilang nenen susu milo artinya dia mau dlm botol susu.. klu dia bilang minum susu milo, artinya dia mau dalam gelas.. bingung juga kdg2 hehehe

Kadus_Mama said...

Mama Mia ~ Iya!! we will survive this..hehehe

urang ranau ~ wah?? 5 orang lagi lah pening!!! Respect ur mom oh!!

Ornest ~ hahaha!! like my son lah tu..mau sia teriak dulu baru bangun..sudah lah sia kasi extra masa untuk tidur..masih lagi tia mau bangun..
pasal susu tu..memang my daughter minum d botol lagi..masih kecil bah..baru 1 tahun lebih jak..dia tia minum d gelas tu..tapi itu lah..kijap mau..kijap tia mau! pening kepala sia melayan di awal pagi..hehehee!!

Lab papa said...

Kadusmama,

Yang sa baca buku, since sa ni baru dalam parenting ewah, dia bilang tu anak saja mo ambil perhatian jak kan.

Anyways, to all moms out there, I salute you all

Kadus_Mama said...

Lab Papa ~ Iya! I know both my kids acting like that for attention..but still, sia yang jadi gila di awal pagi nie! hehehe

yanti said...

ty, sabar sajalah dengan budak2 kan. sometimes they betul2 menduga our kesabaran tahap maksima. but when night comes, you feel so peaceful watching them sleeping.

Kadus_Mama said...

yanti ~ Zy, iya bah budak nie! hahaha memang menduga kesabaran oh! now..malam2 nda nampak dorang tidur pun because sama2 tidur nie..hehehe

chegu carol said...

although im not a mommy yet tapi ada juga lah terexperience ini mcm punya situation. i took care of my niece and nephew last year end of year break. they are both 7 and 5 that time. my MIL sent them for school holiday tuition 3 times a week. when my FMIL went for their end yr vacation, i was in-charged to babysit them. and one of the things i had to do was to persuade them to wake up in the morning. punya susahhhhh!!!! nasib i was on holiday too so no need to rush...kalau like you, have to rush to work some more...adoiii....i can imagine myself coming to work with no make-up on cos no time to bercantik2...hahaha

Kadus_Mama said...

chegu carol ~ actually i have the choice to wake up early juga bah tu..hahaha but tia sanggup sia mau bangun awal..
memang susah betul mau kasi bangun nie..mula2 ok..cakap bagus2 but lama-lama tia mau dengar..terus pandai panas nie..hahahhaha!! everyday like that..apa tia marah...

Poppet said...

jadi WAHM la kdmama..... internet kan ada.. :)

Poppet said...

but memang the kids kadang2 bikin headache ooo.. but I wonder why the moms saja yg selalu headache.. the dads... either masih tidur or dingar ja hehehehehe.. so end up.. mommy garang, daddy tidak hahahahaha

Kadus_Mama said...

poppet ~ jadi WAHM?? Hmmmmmm..nanti2 lah sia pikir..
Sia pun tepikir napa mama jak yang selalu headache...hmmmm nanti sia buat post baru lah pasal nie topik..ekekekee