Jun 16, 2008

Romantic Dinner of my anniversary

It has been 2 day since I celebrated my anniversary, and I admit, it was the most weird and different from my previous anniversary. Hehe No worry, nothing is wrong with it except I didn't receive any kiss from dear hubby...hmmmm?? weird right?? There was no romantic msg or anything from him at all.. Make me think is there something wrong with us after being together for 10 years? For the past 9 years, I will get a kiss whenever the clock strike to 12.00midnight on June, 14th, but on my 10th anniversary, I received none. I can tell you, by the time it's 12midnight, hubby was already snoring and happy all the way to his 'lala land'.
A little bit dissapointed as hubby treated our anniversary like nothing really special about it, I was having a sulking face for the whole morning until hubby asked about our dinner. Hehehe He didn't forget about it, but still he didn't wish me anything. I went back home around 3pm to prepare dinner for my babies, MIL and helper. Cooked spaghetti only lah..ekeke express meals (which i took more than 1 hour to chop all the meat, mushroom, prawn, etc..etc). By 6 pm, I was supposed to be fetched by my price charming, but daughter pulak wanted me to put her to sleep. Aiyooo..carry her around for 15 minutes (she is more than 10kg mind you..very heavy) until she fall asleep then continue to dress up (begaya sikit mah). Went out to The Curve around 6.50pm and went round and round to find a nice place to eat, (supposedly want it to be special) but I cannot find any restaurant I like. We did want to try Bubba Gump restaurant, but it was full house that night, so off we were hunting for other restaurant. While walking..and walking..and walking, we found a place which is just nice for the two of us. We were under the beautiful sky and with two candles on the table (candlelight konon). How romantic right? So what we had for dinner? I had a salmon steak while hubby ate the Gulai Prawn which come together with 'sambal belacan'..! ahahaha Not sure why he wanted to eat that. While eating, we chat a lotssssssss of thing. Suddenly I felt we were like a couple who just started dating. Hehehe..How much I love to stare at hubby's face like I used to last time. Being married and having two kids surely have change our relationship. I remember during my uni time, we will talk in the phone for few hours, and still feel it wasn't enough. Every call will be ended with saying good night and 'I love You' to each other. I don't know why, after we got married, the 'I Love You' part suddenly missing from our routine. Of course there is still a kiss good night, but no more saying I Love You. Sad kan? Now if I want to say I Love You face to face with hubby also feel awkward already.. *sigh*

I remember the time we haven't got married, it was difficult for us to get my dad to approve us. Hahaha!! Yeah..My dad didn't approve my relationship with hubby as he thought hubby was playing around with me. I made the right choice to defy dad by marrying hubby. Haha..can you imagine, I gave dad 2 weeks short notice informing him we wanted to get married? It's not like hubby never ask him before, 4 months before that, hubby ask my dad's permission to marry me, but kesian, rejected pulak his request. So I was thinking, waiting for dad's approval will take forever and I won't be able marry hubby. Luckily dad didn't faint when I first told him hubby's family was going to Sabah. That time, I have to reject the notion that, Dad know whats the best for me. I mean, it's not that I don't respect dad for his decision, but in my heart, I already knew hubby is the one for me. Few months after that, me and hubby was happily married. Hehe happy ending at last. If only I can tell the obstacles we have gone through last time, I'm sure you will be crying by now. So much happiness and sadness that pulling us through until the wedding bell rings.
Ok..it is sooo unusual for me to write a very long post, but..nevermind lah kan..once in a while..I still haven't tell the restaurant we went to for our dinner last saturday..It was none other than..THE EMPRESS, THE CURVE!! ekekekeeee nothing special there except me and hubby can sit outside, under the beautiful sky and surrounded by so many people. We can even watch football match screening at the big screen at Laundry! heheheee So much for being romantic. It doesn't matter because I choose the place and we were having a good time for ourselves. That's the most important, right?

Lastly, eventhough our 10th Anniversary has passed, I know there are more anniversaries ahead of us. I just hope we will have more loves for each other.

26 comments:

Nick Phillips said...

Looks like you guys had a great time. Happy Anniversary to you and your hubby :D

It happens when one is married for so long. We get too comfortable with that person that sometimes we forgot to do the things that we did before getting married ... Happens to me too but I always try to do the things I did when I was dating with wifey to this very day, but sometimes forget la ... hehehe ...

Here's looking to more anniversaries for you and your hubby!

chegu carol said...

Uiyooo...romantic dinner. Wow! Mogot poh kau adalah lagi romantic dinner. Hehe...two weeks notice?? ur hubby pernah kena rejected by ur dad? Odoiii...im sure ur dad is glad that he didnt reject ur hubby after the two weeks notice. Tinguk cucu2 pun terus lembut hati...

p/s sa pun teda anniversary kiss from hubby..apa lah dia tu...LOL

Kadus_Mama said...

nick ~ It was a great day for us..you know what, after our dinner, then only i noticed there is Tony Roma at Cineleisure..if only i know about it.I'm sure we will be having our dinner there.. :)
I guess you are right when we are too confortable with each other, we forgot the sweet thing we've done before married. Hehe

carol ~ Iya..mogot poh ada dinner..hehe if not sure merajuk suda sia..
Pasal my dad reject, ekeke because sia baru grad jak bah that time, so he wants me to work first, but sia yang sibuk mau kawin dulu. But my dad doesn't really like hubby mula2 because he doesn't know him that well..sekali sekarang..nah buddy2 sudah..
*iya..my hubby pun teda kiss for anniversary..hahaha apa lah hubby kita nie..

Little Inbox said...

wah, I see. Ur hubby has been gone through all the difficult situations before approved by your dad, ya...

Kadus_Mama said...

little inbox ~ if only i can tell you..but I'm glad those difficulties were already behind us..now different type of difficulties pulak..have to find more money already..hahahaha

urang ranau said...

hmm romantic dinner, gud nite kiss..siok o kan, 10 yrs..hmm macam rasa mo kawin ja cepat2 kadus mama, nnt la sia tinguk2 dulu kiri kanan kalau ada tanak kwagu...wish me luck.

Kadus_Mama said...

urang ranau ~ iya..tapi lepas kawin teda sudah say I love You..hahaha ganjil pulak sia rasa..
Bah..ramai pun sana spore tu..hehe pilih jak mana satu ko mau.. :)

Lab papa said...

uhhh ahhh vewwy romantika di amor la. All the susah payah before kawin pun suda terabang jauh2 kan. Good for you kadusmama!!!

Kadus_Mama said...

lab papa ~ iya..susah payah tu baru dapat kawin.. :) now..mau concentrate the obstacles of surviving in kl..ekekee too high cost of living.. :)

Choc Mint Girl said...

Betul tu, nda kira di mana as long as kamu happy bah. Bapa ko tu susah mo kasi lepas ko bah tu... Time ko kawin, menangis bah dia tu... Ish, tersedih kunun sya ingat2 balik, tau2 urang happy sudah pun. :D

M@uRiNe said...

Agreed with nick phillips.
The love is still there bah tu T. Less spicy ja. True once in a while we want to hear the ILU but I believe action speaks louder than words.
As for me, after married sa 'paksa' my hubby says ILU everytime after gud nite kiss. Bila sudah rutin and suddenly sa terlupa, pandai pula dia merajuk hehehe...

Poppet said...

tiada "I love you" sudah...maknanya sudah very confident yg the other half know that he loves her... but if he doesnt say.. you la pula say kadusmama hehehehe

Shemah said...

wowww!!

Looks like you guys had a great anniversary dinner. I love Salmon Steak. MAcam sedap tu tauu!

.. It's nice to hear love endearments once in a while.. tapi kalau tidak pun, bukan bererti hilang sudah kasih sayang kan? But Nick is right, things like that tend to get forgotten when you're too comfortable with each other. Jangan cakap mau 10 tahun, I'm only married 5 years pun sudah slow down on the I love yous... hahaha..

Anyways, here's to you and your hubby and more and more beautiful years to come! Cheers! :)

ArMs said...

You were really brave that time, fighting for future hubby... heehe. but now it was the best for everyone kan... you did the right thing;) Happy Ending... but not the end yet! More anniversaries to you and your hubby...

Kadus_Mama said...

choc mint ~ hehe..iya sia ingat juga my dad crying tu..kesian juga kan..

m@urine ~ hehee..boleh pulak 'paksa' ah..bah will try paksa hubby lah from now..hahaha (he read my blog juga tu)

poppet ~ ada juga i try to say ILU..sekali nda kena layan...hahaha!

shemah ~ eh shemah..i'm only married for 5 years lah..hehe we've been together for 10 years lah..malas mau celebrate wedding anniversary because i have 3 dates bah..hehehe
By the way..sedap tu salmon steak campur sambal belacan! hahaha

arms ~ confident that time, thats why i dare to fight for it..hehe

Ratu Syura said...

Wowww.. Im inspired la.. It's not easy following your heart and defying your father. In the end, happy jugak kau kan.. Kau rasa awkward mau cakap ILU, laki ko pun awkward bah tu jugak.. I also cannot imagine being married for 10 years and still have the marriage macam time baru2 kenal..

Kadus_Mama said...

Ratu Syura ~ Iya!! take a risk tu last time..nasib i made the right choice...
Ntah lah..sia ok jak cakap ILU, tapi hubby tu yang keras lidah..hahaha malas juga mau paksa cakap kan...
Alamak syura! i think i have to clarify here that I'm only married for 5 years lah. we didn't celebrate our wedding anniversary due to many dates masa kawin..So we only celebrate Anniversary of meeting each other..hehe lagi senang

Ornest said...

Wah, punya siok ko punya rentetan kehidupan ni. cinta karas ;)

U know ur husband more than ur father know him. That's why u dare to defy his advice and go on marrying ur hubby. It is not that ur father reject ur relationship but like Choc Mint Girl said, dia sedih berjauhan sama ko bah. Dari kicik smpi basar dia jaga ko, tiba2 kawin sm orang KL. Jarang sdh jumpa nanti. I believe that he knew that ur hubby is a good man but may be thinking of being separated from u, he objected ur marriage. Lumangad oku dika kaa di tapa nu :D

tapi yg sdh limpas tu, biarkan berlalu. yang penting ko bahagia sdh skrg. Ko sdh minta maaf dari dad ko? ;)

Kadus_Mama said...

ornest ~ ahaha! ko nie..nda lah bah sia melawan habis2an..hahaha..it was a short notice informing him I'm getting married mah..not that kami belawan cakap pun..hehehe
What choc mint girl means here is, on my wedding day, masa my dad mau kasi sia sama hubby sudah, dia tenangis sebab happy kali..eekekeke memang lah bah sedih kan..anak dia mau kawin sudah..
But teda pulak minta maaf sebab teda juga kami begaduh..hehe only sia p kawin laki sia..ekekekee and now dorang pun buddy2 sudah

Ornest said...

hahaha!!! Oklah.. Hepi 5th Annivasary of marriage and 10th year of love-filled relationship to both of you :D

emelda said...

Happy anniversary KadusMama :D

Cheers to you and hubby!!!

Crazyfinger said...

jan malu2 ba cakap..adaka mau malu..suda kawin..suda nenu nenu semua..kentut pun depan hubby lg..apa mau malu lg...lain la kalu time candle light dinner..tu mesti nervous..mcm 1st official dating la kan..seh..debar2 kunun jantung ..sekali suda besa..aha..


thank god for all the bad and good things happened all this while kadusmama...am sure you both had a great time...and of course lots of people little but not much jealous of this kinda life..susa ba mau hidup zamam sekarang...byk dugaan and byk halangan..GBU..

Kobie said...

wah nice food!nyum nyum hehe..congrats Kadus & CW..mcm nda pcaya kan, masa brlalu so fast o, dat time byk betul halangan kamu, I remember ur dad said on ur wedding, he asked me "bila giliran ko kawin kobie" me replied "nda tau ni uncle teda urg mau", then he said "jangan ko, nda tau ni jodoh sampai bila, ko ckp nda mau, bsuk2 ko kawin suda tu, susah mau ckp pasal jodoh ni"..wah!! uncle punya face dat time kadus, so sedih sa nmpk..anak kesayangan dia kawin kan..heehee!! Anyway, happy anvsry again my dear friend!God Bless u & ur family, always

Kadus_Mama said...

ornest ~ Thanx again for the second wish..

emelda ~ thanx Mel!!

crazyfinger ~ Hehe! Thanx for the wish..
Besa lah bah life kan..mana yang teda halangan.. :)

kobie ~ iya bah last time..kesian juga my dad telampau sedih masa sia kawin..macam lah bah sia nda mau balik sabah sudah kan..
Jan ko risau..if ko kawin, sia confirm balik sabah tu.. :)

papajoneh said...

Wow.. I'm the last one. Hehe... jgn marah. PapaJ ni memang slalu lambat. Bukan ndak mau datang.. memang ndak terdatang to all bloggers' blog pun.

Anyway, congrats on the 10 yr relationship. 5 yrs marriagelah.. baguslah. Janji still bersama2, together-gather.

About the no i love you thing.. hmmm... i wanna say biasalah.. but then... mcm slalu pulak kami say to each other.. hehehe... so no comment on that partlah. Just hope you two still together till the end and that the children are healthy and smiling always... good enough lah kan. Oh ya, papaJ and mamaj already 8 yrs married...just for info. hehe... u can delete that after reading..hehe.

Kadus_Mama said...

papajoneh ~ Nda pa bah lambat..hehe bukan satu tahun pun telambat kan..thanx for the wish ah papajon..at least ko kawin lama dari sia! heheheeee..