Feb 27, 2009

Love your wife, and you kill her

I don’t know. This is what somebody told me not long time ago. The guy has been married for 20 years and is really a nice guy. No..no..don’t get me wrong. The guy I’m talking about is the lorry driver who managed our factory waste.
So about a month ago, we (me, my colleague and him) had a chat about his wife. Talk..talk..talk, we reached the story about his Grandfather. His grandfather advised them (the grandchildren) not to show their wife (when they married lah!!) too much of love. Huh????? I was speechless when he told me that. So I asked him why?? And he told me, showing too much of love to the wife will cause her to die early!!! What the……??????
I don’t know whether it’s a belief or a nonsense the grandchildren forced to believe. But seriously…any of you guys have ever heard about this before???
If the husband cannot showers the wife with lotsssssssss of love, who is going to??? Takkan the neighbour or Monster-in-Law (Opsss!! Mother-in-Law bah!) kan???
Back to the guy, he told us his wife is super sensitive and emotional creature. If he forgot to compliment her cooking, she will cry at least for 2 days. And if the guy the accidentally smack or rather tap, maybe her hand, she will immediately pack her stuffs ready to go back to the parents house!!! And they already married for 20 years?????? *roll eyes*
The guy really love the wife 'so the very' much, but no matter how much he love the wife, he told us, he won’t show 100% of his love fearing she will die early. Dangs!!! Sepa lah pigi buat this rules nie???? Don’t you think is absurd @ gila???????
Bah, whoever heard about this ‘golden rules’ before, do let me know about it ya? I still cannot accept it lah…! Should a husband bash their wife in order the wife to live longer???? Hahahahahaa..Gila!!

32 comments:

ღ NinieJane ღ said...

haha
it is not "to showing moree love @ 100% love" decide the death.

God Himself kan.

tia tau la dorang punya ajaran ni hahaa.. sian juga tu wife dia, tingu tia kana puji masakan trus nangis 2 hari, kurang kasih sayang kali hehehehe

Ann said...

Back to the guy, he told us his wife is super sensitive and emotional creature. If he forgot to compliment her cooking, she will cry at least for 2 days. And if the guy the accidentally smack or rather tap, maybe her hand, she will immediately pack her stuffs ready to go back to the parents house!!! And they already married for 20 years?????? *roll eyes*



--> palui eh wakakakaka mcm nda masuk akal suda c wife tu. Nonsense, yg teda2 pun mo merajuk smpi bgini teruk astaga! I wish I won't be like that next time.

AngeL BeaR said...

mangkali the term 'showing the love' is about stuffing the wife too much with good food..nanti cepat kena penyakit (mcm2 lagi tuh)...or giving too much jewelry, nanti kena rumpak...hahahahahah........

Just kidding..but somehow, maybe he was raised in an environment where showing love and affection is not to be done in the open or clearly...tau la ni guys sometimes go ego also.

Part the wife sikit-sikit mo pack baju tu pun satu juga..aiya...tu macam ah...I think it's the laukung that will die early lor!!!

Then again...for all guys out there, we are delicate creatures that needed to be loved, pampered and taken care of. Yes, I do get a little bit upset if my love one ignores me...or never say he loves me back sometimes...but then again...if we knew that someone loves us...it's what inside the heart that matters. =)

just 2 cents of my opinion...hehehe...

Anonymous said...

i think ahh ... !!! maybe the grandpa actually wanna tell them dont make to much love with wife lah .... but then u know lah ... old timer ppl kan malu2 a bit ... so, his said lah "dont show to much love" ... kesian lah jugak all the anak2, grandchild... had the wrong information .... till today ... akekakeka ...

Lil' Ms Pinky said...

Aiyo this story is absurd, I tell you! I've never heard of such things before!

I'd brush it off as old wives' tale. :)

Ida Athanazir said...

the problem is the wife ... ask her to get a grip !! susah lah like that, have to jaga hati all the time.

nope, i never heard such thing before... funny la

Mimi said...

If this is true, then I'll die early because my husband tells me he loves me everyday... I'd better survey for a nice location memorial park already. Hehehe.. JJ ah!

Natalia said...

I never heard about this story.

Your colleague very kesian lah kan...his wife is so so sensitive ya...after married for 20 years still act like that...aadduuuiiii...kesian...

Btw...I've got a tag for you...

Mouren said...

Adadada....tidak la sia mau kasi baca ni to my hubby...hihihihihihi!

By the way, I have 3 colleagues who has TB = TAKUT BINI! Their wives control them a lot. No night outing, no overtime and must be home by 6pm. Yaii! These husband pula ikut saja cakap bini atas alasan ‘sayang bini' kunun..wakakakaka..tau-tau kan, dorang ni ‘takut bini’.

Hemmm...wondering if my hubby does love me 100%?

elcynthia said...

if your friend's taboo is true, i picked to be 'OFF' earlier.*cough* LOL

but then again, his wife is surely 'something'. still acting like that after 20 years??? crazy meh? different story if they're just married for 20 days.. ^^

Lab papa said...

This is new hahaha. I should apply it immediately.

ohhh come on hahahaha.

GregChai said...

interesting ...

but i feel both man and woman needs to be loved, pampered and taken care of, otherwise ... buat apa kahwin, and nowadays men are no longer the sole breadwinner, may be some people will disagree with me but that's a fact.

and i think, some women are stronger than some men in handling certain situation ...

thanks for sharing Kdmama,

my ½ cent kio, hehehe

nice story, something to think about ...

JPP Papa said...

Wow this is so so new.. never heard pulak ni.
Teori ndak masuk akal ni.. but maybe like si "anonymous" nick atas sana said, not too much love making kot.. hahahaha...

if like this.. i better slow down with my wife... :P

Nick Phillips said...

ROTFL! This is the first time I've heard of something like this. Maybe I should not shower my wife with too much love ... LOL!

BrokenSatellite said...

1st of all..
that wife of his is super duper sensitive.

2nd.
no such thing la. i think this is something orang dulu2 make up so that the wife tia pandai pijak kepala husband.
:D

Grumpy said...

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Adora said...

Aik btl kaini?

Matilah jg dibobog oleh si boyfriend once we get married ni in order to make me live longer. Hahaha

Kadus_Mama said...

Ninie jane ~ itu lah!! sia pun nda paham..apa pulak kaitan kan??

Ann ~ mengkali the wife suka bermanja2 bah tu..but then ter'over pulak..hahaa

Angel Bear ~ eh ya lah!! Macam logik pulak ko punya opinion kan?? The jewelery part paling logik..mana lah tau telampau kena bagi diamond2 and emas2, nanti kena rompak pulak..!!

Kadus_Mama said...

Anon ~ Hmmmm..tapi napa nda bulih make love banyak2 pulak?? after all they already husband and wife what??
Tapi mungkin juga lah kan???

Lil'ms pinky ~ Thats why!! very absurd kan???

Ida ~ Yeah!! I think the wife is too clingy and over juga..but the husband pun ok jak..:)

Kadus_Mama said...

Mimi ~ hahahhaaa!!!! Nirvana punya pun ok?? hahahaa
Nonsense betul bah kan!!

Natalia ~ telampau manja kali bah tu..ntah lah..
Nanti sia buat the tag ah..nda bepa free mau buat..

elcynthia ~ ekekeee...!! Like mimi said, mau p cari memorial park sudah..hahahaa

msLabadin said...

I think the grandpa's intention was to prevent the wife from naik kapla bah tat *agreeing with BrokenSatellite*!!!

lain juga kan thinking people dulu2!!!

Madu Beracun said...

never heard about this. but to me this is totally absurd. and funny too. this, for me is just myth. nothing but myth.

Kadus_Mama said...

Mouren ~ Hahaha..sindrom takut bini lah tu..! yang the bini pun macam melampau juga bah..adakah telampau control macam tu..

Lab Papa ~ Nah!!!!! JANGAN!!!!!! (LOL!!)

Gregchai ~ :)U know me bah..this kind of stuffs sure lah menarik hati sia...

Nessa said...

Maybe urang dulu2 inda mau kasi telampau manja2 the bini... too much love is bliss for me... hehe

Tapi memang la super duper overly sensitive dia punya wife tu. Bikin takut oh...

hiLDa aThiRAh said...

never heard of it..tapi if kita pula yang show kita lurve sangat hubby kita macam?..ada apa2 ka tu...?LOL...p/s: MIL...i suka the other meaning...hehehe...

sheell said...

hahaha....absurd betul.~~
kalau my husband dont show his love i will take literally. i mean if u afraid to show ur love then why married, tunggu mati baru show la.. die early ka tidak itu God call bah bukan nya ko tau kan..and taking risk not to show because afraid she will die that stupid.. heehehe sorry i need people to 'show' me if not i am blind automatically...

hehehe but 20 years?? marriage?? maybe not showing love have effect on the long term of the marriage perhaps??ntah la
('',)

Kadus_Mama said...

JPPpapa ~ Hahaha..jan bah like that...kesian your wife nanti..

Nick Phillips ~ Maybe male species invented the tale so that they no need to show too much love to their wife??? hahahhaaa

Broken Satellite ~ Could be juga kan?? mengkali nda mau the wife pijak kepala..

Kadus_Mama said...

Grumpy ~ hi there..!!! Thanx for following my blog..

Adora ~ hahahahha!! Kalau mem'bobog' lah the way to make us live longer, sanggup lagi sia kena love banyak2 and mati awal oh..ekekeke

Mas Labidin ~ itu la tu..mengkali nda mau the wife kontrol the husband bah tu kan??

Kadus_Mama said...

Madu Beracun ~ Its the first time i heard about it too..!! And yeah, i think it's totally absurd..

Nessa ~ Mana lah bah perempuan nda suka kena love kan?? :)
Tapi itu lah..itu guy punya wife memang sensitive oh..ada kah nda kena puji masakan pun nangis sampai 2 hari..tensen juga tu orang yang kasi cerita sia tu..

Hilada ~ I think kalau perempuan yang show love to lelaki, no problem tu..hahaha!! compulsary lagi kali..LOL!!!!

Kadus_Mama said...

Sheell ~ Thats why!! Hidup mati kita, God yang kasi tentu bah kan..bukan love kita sama wife / husband..
Tu lah sia bepikir, sepa bah yang p buat tu rules macam tu..hehehee

emelda said...

pengsan la ba juga ni...siapa la gila pi cakap like this ar? Sot...Dan better not see this post...LOL!! Nanti kurang kasih sayang sia trus dari dia...

Kadus_Mama said...

Emelda ~ hahahaha!! kalau si Dan nampak nie, awal2 sudah dia komen tu..so now worry, dia bulum nampak lagi