Jan 16, 2009

Which one is the worst??

I'm very..very tired at this moment. I slept early last nite, only to woke up with a pretty lethargic conditions. Maybe i'm soooooo used to sleep late, sleeping early make me even tired the next day.
Since i have not much to share today, let me give you these 3 situations and tell me which one of the 3 is the worst among the others.

:: The boy with a fork stuck in his nose..??? (Goodness!!! If this photo is real, i'm not sure how the boy can stand such pain)..gila lah!!!!

:: My dad's pet fish (Kalui Fish to be exact) died last night, and that left my dad in a very..very sad state now. Now, before you think.."it's just a fish!!!". No! it's not just a fish. Kalui had been with my dad since 1995..and you tell me, do you know any fish lives that long??? From a tiny little fish, Kalui grows until 2 feet long..and that was since 14 years ago!! Kesian my dad, he was very..very sad when he sent me smses last nite. He felt like he lost one of his anak pulak!
:: This morning, hubby YMed me and can you believe it, he asked me how to SPELL MY NAME???? I was sooooooooo dumbfounded and totally speechless..!! We have been together for almost 11 years now...and not knowing how to spell my name is totally........(malas mau sambung).

You see lah the snippet of our conversation...!! *sigh* sedihnya hati ini... :( (But i'm a forgiving person bah!! So a DSLR for me will absolutely make me feel better!!! Heheheeee)
So out of the three, which one is the worst????

34 comments:

AngeL BeaR said...

I'd go for the third...my bf's gonna get it if he forgot how to spell my name correctly. *laughs*

i'm sorry for your dad's fish. I understand how he feels. Last time, my granpa used to have a pet monkey that's been there even before I was born. When the poor thing died of old age, it really makes the old guy sad.

As for the kid, it's scary alright.

Mouren said...

Whatttt?? Yr hubby forgot how to spell your name...after 11 years lagi tu. Nah, the 3rd is the worst!

Adora said...

The third. Sabar ah Ty.

Mell_f said...

Even my kucing yg baru 1 bulan tu mati pun suda sy sedih oo,apa lagi yg ikan yg kena piara more than 10years.

Still,no 3 is the worst :(

JPP Papa said...

Sebagai lelaki dan juga husband kepada someone, 3rd not worst.. still ok.
yg no.2 yg paling sedih tu. Mahal lagi kalui tu. Duuuui gia, kasi sms balik, jaga kesihatan kau yg penting bilang. nanti sia cari ikan kalui baru. Biarkan lah ia pergi. Tuhan lebih sayang dia kali. Gitu kau sms kio.

Tapi kalau sia sebagai wanita which is imposssible, the 3rd one sure can result something incredible in the relationship. The hubby sure tidur luar. cannot touch for 3 months except if i want and tapau your own lucnh or dinner to house.
If boyfriend, kasi break terus... 11 years bah tu.. duuuuuuiiii gia.

sabar saja kau ah. :(

Nick Phillips said...

LOL! If it was me asking wifey how to spell her name, I'd better be prepared to sleep on the floor in the store room for at least one week la ... hahaha ...

Kadus_Mama said...

AngelBear ~ i was pretty mad this morning when hubby YMed to ask my name!!!!!!
Yang my dad tu..kesian..he cannot even bring himself to see his fish died..kesian..tidak sanggup my dad mau tingu..

Mouren ~ Exactly!! Ini yang bikin meradang tadi pagi!!

Adora ~ *sigh* tensen kan??

sHeiLa said...

it's such a sad for ur dad who lost his 'kalui'. i did felt the same way when my dogs passed away.nangis2 macam apa jak ba..heh..

regarding which is the worst, i go for the second..heeeeeeee

Kadus_Mama said...

Mell_f ~ sedih kan...even sia yang di sini KL pun tenangis dingar kalui di rumah mati..! kesian bah sebab tu kalui memang ada feeling nie..he knows how to show his feeling..kalau dia nda suka tu urang kan..memang terus dia langgar2 aquarium dia..

JPPpapa ~ Hahaha!!! Teketawa sia baca comment ko nie!!
First..iya sudah juga sia sms my dad last nite..told him how fortunate he is to have his kalui with him for 13 1/2 years..ingat senang ka ikan bulih hidup gitu lama..takkan tu ikan hidup sampai bepuluh2 tahun..! but..itu lah..even si kalui was older than my dad punya grand child..i know he is still very..very sad now..kesian kan..
Pasal my hubby tu...ADUH!!! memang bikin meradang!! hahaa ada kah bulih nda tau apa macam mau spell my name..itu baru lah! nanti i decide mau suruh hubby tidur atas sofa or not!! hahahaha

Nick Phillips ~ Maybe that what i should do ya?? hahahaha

Nessa said...

The last one is the worst for me. Memang bikin sakit hati tapi your name tu memang unique ba...

Yeah, forgive but never forget... hehe *sabar ko*

Btw, sian bapa ko Kalui dia suda gol... rest in peace Kalui!

sweetie~ said...

for women, the 3rd one will be the worst...for men, that is just a remeh temeh thing....funny kan.

btw, a very unique name. elspeth? klu google pun teda kali ni kan...lol

Just said...

Agree with Sweetie.

For women, the 3rd one mmg worst. and for men, small matter only that.

Kesian pulak sama dad ko. Sdh terbesa sama c kalui ba tu. Suddenly, teda sdh.. naa.. sedih la dia. Doiii..

chegu carol said...

adui bah Ty... i LOL reading itu chat excerpt of you and ur hubby...."wana tell or dont wanna to tell"....hahahaha

well...each one is worst at its' own situation. itu pic one, kalau betul2 lah, as a mother memang teda buli calm down until itu fork kena buka dr tu hidung. gila eh!

sorry to hear about ur dad's kalui. i'd feel devastated too if it was me. sedangkan anjing urg yg suddenly dtg pi rumah, kena langgar pun sia buli menangis mcm hilang anak... ;)

tapi, ur hubby punya kes jugalah yg paling kick. hehehehe

jppmom said...

pandai si JPP Papa kasi advice ko yea..hehehe nasib dia tau how to spell my name, if not..nantilah kasi tau hehehe...
and of course 3rd one yg serious kes tu..mcmlah hubby ko tulis love letter to u last time if tak tau spelling yer name :D ..& condolence to yer dad for his kalui ahh..

Mama Mia said...

I vote for the 3rd. Punya lama together-gether tp lupa wife sndri punya napa..mana bulih jd ni. ;)

Aniway, sorry for demised of your Dad's beloved Kalui. RIP Kalui!

Gallivanter said...

First one. Your name is unusual and unique. Why didn't you mom name you names like Samantha or Cathy or Gretchen, easier to remember bah... :-P

sheelasheena said...

i vote for the 3rd one. If my boyfriend can not write my name he will get from me. i mean name is important, thats me.. hehehe.

but u know man they sometimes ignorance. hahaha..cute la the ym conversation...

take care

Kay Leaf said...

three also i dont like and not happy lar~!!! aiyer... semua also kasian~!!!

♥ AnnieMing ♥ said...

yang benar bah tu gerpu sana hidung? adui..

sa perna cry 1 night sebap sa punya goldfish yg sa piara for almost 1 year RIP, tu belum 1 tahun lagi, inda dapat sa bayangkan pamacam ur dad punya feelings oh.. pity on him..

haa.. kalau my husband spelt my name wrong, sa cucuk2 kepala dia pakai jari telunjuk sa balik2.. ;-p hehe main2 ja, kadang2 kalau telampau panggil nama lain, fullname pun pandai silap ba kan haha..

the worst: mm, yep number 3.. kikikikk..

Wel^Beiolman said...

aduh.....tu sja sia dapat cakap o.....

Lab papa said...

aiseh Kadusmama, my answer will be the poor boor with fork stuck on his nose. Man that is the worst. Physically hurt. If the doctor doesnt fix it properly, the boy will have several nose holes oh...

Anyways, kesian tu your dad juga k.

Happy weekend

Anonymous said...

haiya ... all mates out there !!!
u guys know lah .... since 11 yrs all this time call and write ...
"darling tyyy ... come tyy ... morning darling .... gd nite darling ... makan darling .... one round darling ... help me to do this darling .... everytime, everyday darling ...." u see not even one time call or write Elspeth ... maybe is time to call her by name .... ha ha ha ...

chegu carol said...

the hubby's talking!!! LOL!

'one round darling'...man, i could get lotsa imaginations with that phrase.

lab papa, a few holes on his nose. kesian but i just cant stop giggling reading at what u typed. :D

Kadus_Mama said...

HAHAHHAHAHAA!!!! Actually i am very busy at the moment tapi sekali tenampak my hubby terus sia teketawa di opis nie!!!! HAHAHAHHA

Carol ~ terus sia pun bepikir one round yang mana satu ni ah?? hahahahhahahaa

Little Inbox said...

Ha! My husband don't know how to write my Chinese name too. So, I gave him a lesson la. Ask him to practise writing my name lor. Haha...good idea?

Choc Mint Girl said...

Heheee... funny oh si CW (eh, ngam kan)... Doi, kasian si uncle... Dulu kalui kami si 'JJ' mati pun sedihhh tul, satu umur bah sama kalui kamu tu kan. Tapi yang kamu punya ni memang besar suda. Sian.

Kristie said...

hahaa men men men!!!! they remember the least important stuffs and forget the most important stuffs! deserve a whacking hehe....

i feel so sad for u dad too... that is the thing with having pets... one day they will leave u and ur heart will be broken. Hope ur dad will feel better soon!

Anonymous said...

ha ha ... the "little inbox" just reminding me .... is she(Ms Elspeth) know how to write my chinese name or not ? i bet she doesn't know ... but complain number 1 ... i guess no one can compete her .... ha ha

Chegu Carol ~ ha ha... the one round is actually makan "buffet" lah .... not "supper" ... :)
~Gong Xi Fa Cai~ all of u ....

carolinebabby said...

doiiii kaluiiii!!!!...itu yg saya paling sedih!!...sia mau phone bapa kau skrg juga....

GregChai said...

pandai meng "hint" ah mau DSLR.... don't worry, i'm sure your hubby very understanding, who knows ad suda hadiah for chinese new year hehehe

to you and your family, Gong Xi Fa Cai :D may the year of the Ox brings prosperity, good fortune, good health, hapiness :)

Kadus_Mama said...

Little inbox ~ I'm not chinese, so got excuse for being unable to write hubby's name in chinese..hehehe!!!

Choc Mint Girl ~ hehehe! sot bah dia tu..
Nah itu lah..sedih kan..my dad kali nangis juga di rumah tu!! Sama umur bah tu, tapi si kalui kami almost 14 years old sudah.. dorang yang lain memang sedih nie..cantik2 si kalui kena kubur..cian oh!!

Kristie ~ hahaha!! I will whack hubby's head soon..hahahahaa!!!

Kadus_Mama said...

Anon ~ I complain a lot meh??? Chis!! Thats the fact mah!!!! No excuse for you for not knowing to spell my name lah!! Aparak!!!!

carolinebabby ~ sudah ko pon?? Kesian bapa sia tu..sedih berabis dia tu..

Gregchai ~ harap ada lah DSLR!! hahaha!! Nikon D60 ppun bulih lah..nda payah lah tu D90!! akakakaka But i want the speedlight too..akaka apa macam nie??

cicak said...

adui sakit perut sa o Kadusmama... adoi adoi adoi dan adoi...
>__<

belleOFranau said...

biarlah sy yang last comment...sia rasa cam semua jak ni....
the reason is..
1.(that Pic) mesti idung dia jd weird nanti kan..bukan belubang 2 suda...mesti berlubang 5...kesian...
2. uik..ikan kalui bawa tuah tau...my dad pun pelihara kalui juga...urg cakap kalau pelihara kalui..buli tepis buatan urg.,.n buli dapat numbur di sport TOTO..hehehehe
3.emm..no komen..kalau reo did it to me, sy potostat IC sy then laminate cantik2 taru di wallet dia... :P