Warning : I might use a lil' bit vulgar words to express my feeling here!
Yep! The title written based on what almost happend yesterday..or rather monday incident + tuesday solution. You see, when i reached home on Monday night, my MIL cannot even wait for me to sit down to tell me about son. I just reached at home that time when she immediately tell me that Son's class teacher hits son on his back while at school. Upon hearing that, my blood started to boil as i think there is no reason whatsover teachers are allowed to hit their students on their back. But being a reasonable mommy, i let my MIL finished the whole encounter in case i miss any point that could lead me act unreasonably toward son's teacher when i confront her. To confirm the incident, I even asked son the whole story on why the teacher hit him using a wooden ruler. Could it be he was naughty and disturb other kids while in class? But sadly, he didn't do anything that deserved to be hit like that. If you are wondering whether son was injured or something, well..it isn't that serious. When my MIL want to bathe son after school, she smells this funny pungent Minyak Angin smell (Not sure what oil this bloody teacher use to rub off the mark from son's back). So she asked son why he got that smell. Thats when son told her, the teacher hits his back. And what reason she hits him?????? All because son couldn't write one of the chinese character on the book, hence son not able to finish the work given in the class. Stupid or not you think??? I mean, if my son is naughty or something, i don't really mind the teacher gives a little smack on the palm (FOR SURE NOT ON THE BACK), but hitting the student for not knowing how to write properly is just totally dumb...I'm not sure where this dumb teacher put her brain that time. Isn't it her duty as a teacher to teach her student properly???? But..but..thats not the reason why I almost beat her yesterday. (Don't play..play oh!! I sometimes also ganas, you know!! hehe). I went to the school quite early yesterday to confront the teacher on her wrongdoing. When she saw me, i can see she was a lil' bit panic. (yeah..she knows she is wrong, thats why she is scared). I meet her face to face and start to enquire her about her act : Me : Teacher, i need to ask you something. Yesterday, my son told me you hit him in the class. Did you really hit him on his back???? (I was polite when I first talking to her)
Teacher : (Panic face) What?? When??? (pretended that she doesn't know anything)
Me : Yesterday..and you hit him using a wooden ruler on his back. Did you do that?
Teacher : Oh..that!! Ya lah..because ahh you son, don't know whats wrong with him yesterday, he didn't finish the work i give him in the class.
Me : He told me that he doesn't know how to write the chinese character properly, and because of that, you hit him.
Teacher : .........
Me : Do you know how dangerous it is for you to hit a small kid like him on the back?? What if you hit him and it affect his internal organs?? He is only 4 years old you know.
Teacher : No lah!! I didn't hit him that hard. I only slap a little on his back. Thats all.
Me : But, how come you rub the ointment on his back?? You try to rub off the red mark from his back right?? (A little hot that time)
Teacher : You see ah, your son has a very fair skin..so hit a little also red colour already.
Me : I know my son..you no need to tell me about that. But why did you hit him on the back??? Can you not just give a little smack on his palm?? Why need to hit the back??
Teacher : I..I..don't know lah..yesterday ah, i was very angry you know..because ah, your son like dreaming..dreaming in the class..
Me : (Wuahhhh...and that give her the right to hit my son??????) It doesn't matter he is dreaming or what, but don't you know hitting a kids back is very dangerous??? You could accidently hurt and injured the internal organs..do you know that?? (I'm repeating the fact again!!!) Teacher : Aya..the one i know lah..but i didn't hit him hard mah.. Me : I don't know how hard you hit him, but my son complained it pained him a lot.. Teacher : (Trying to divert my attention and protect herself) You see ah..sometimes all the 4 years kids are very naughty..so i need to hit them lah sometimes.. Me : (I don't know why this teacher is dumb like a donkey) I understand what you mean..but pleaseeeeeeee!!!!!!!! Don't hit the back! I do smacked my son sometimes, but never on the back. Its only on his palm or calf. Teacher : You see ahhh..not easy you know to teach a 4 years old kid..sometimes don't want to.. Me : (Me soooooooooooooooo damn angry already!! Bloody teacher..keep giving me don't know what excuses to cover her act) STOP!!! I KNOW HOW A 4 YEARS OLD KIDS ACT AND ITS NOT EASY FOR YOU TO TEACH THEM IN THE CLASS. BUT MY POINT HERE IS..NOT ABOUT THEIR NAUGHTINESS, BUT HOW YOU PUNISHED YOUR STUDENT! AS I TOLD YOU, YOU CAN JUST SMACK THEM ON THE PALM AND NOT ON THE BACK. (Its not the first time she hit her students on their back, my son told me one of his friends Nettish always hit on his back) Teacher : ........ Me : (Lower down my voice) I know its not easy for you to take care of them in the class..but please, in the future, never ever hit your student on their back..It is very wrong!! Teacher : (No remorse look pun) Ok loh..I'm sorry lah..now you tell me, then I know what to do loh..(Goodness!! Does it mean she doesn't know what she should do all this time????? ) If she just stop here..i might be ok and went off to work..but she stupidly complain about my son pulak!!
Teacher : But your son ah, the 'perangai' ah, is like he is big already. The way he think like adult already. Me : (BUDUH!!!!) Huh??? Isn't that a good thing?? a 4 years old kid can think maturely?? Teacher : No lah..!! a kid should act like a kid..not think like a grown up. I don't like kids like your son. Me : (BANGANG!!!!) I'm sooo proud of my son with his advance thinking and you say its not good???????? *disbelief* Teacher : Ya lah..a kids should act like a kid. Playing all the time. Not thinking what is happening around him. Not questioning what is happening around him??? Me : (If i got a machete that time, i'm sure i already chop her into 100pcs!!! hahaha!! I was sooooo damn angry yesterday!!) At least my son can think what is wrong and what is right. And that is not an easy achievement for a small kid like him!!!!! Teacher : Ya lah...But..
Me : (Cut off her mid sentence!! Hahaha) Ok lah teacher..i need to go to work already..But i hope i won't hear any back smacking incident in the future..Please!!! Teacher : *dumbfounded for a while* Ok lah..now you tell me, i know already loh..sorry ahhh..! So like that lah my whole conversation with the dumb teacher (its the same teacher who cursed in front of the students). I know I'm being unreasonable here, but if you were me, talking to her is like a nightmare. With her saliva spurting all over me, and the non-coherent excuses given to justify herself, I'm sure any parents in my shoe that time will get angry like me. I cannot understand why she wants to be a kindergarten teacher if she cannot stand a small kids attitude! Bongoh sekali!!!!!
By the way, my daughter hurts her thumb lah..see, the pix...so kesian my daughter! I don't really know what happend, but my MIL said daugther try to open the door when MIL bathed son, and somehow daughter's thumb got injured..Its such a heart wrenching to see her whined about her painful thumb.
Ok..ok..now I'm feeeeelling sooooo much better after complaining about the donkey teacher. Hehe!! If any of you think I'm too harsh to the teacher..Well, I'm not..! You will know my feeling when you have to deal with her..
