Apr 3, 2009

I'm very sad over a very bad news i heard

I’ve been trying to post something since this morning, but my fingers just refused to click my keyboard..! Several attempt made, but still, I failed to type what I’ve been wanting to say.. You see, this morning, son gave me one shocking news and that news really bugged me until this moment..I really cannot stop thinking about it..!
I was chatting with son about the driver who sent him back home after school and he told me, she has been driving really fast even though our house is very…very near from the school. Sometimes all the small kids will fall from their sit whenever that driver breaks her car. Chat…chat…and chat..! I told Isaac to tell the teacher that she is not supposed to drive like a maniac when she is ferrying all the kids back home. Chat..chat..chat…I suddenly remember about his classmate who always like to bash Isaac against the wall, poke his face with a pencil…
Mommy : Zac, Netish still disturb you in the class???
Isaac : Netish no more come to school.
Mommy : Why???
Isaac : Netish die already loh!!! *nonchalantly*
Mommy : *SHOCKED* ISAAC!!!! Don’t simply say that..Netish sicks???
Isaac : He dies already! Teacher told me.
Mommy : *Don’t believe son* what happened??
Isaac : Netish and the mommy naik motorbike..then a car hit them..
Mommy : Are you sure??? Cannot lie to mommy, you know??
Isaac : I no lie to you. Teacher told me..

In the pix are Netish, Isaac, Harry and Zhe Yi (at the back! Used to be my son's bestfriend in the class)

Now…I don’t really believe what son told me as he tends to exaggerate things sometimes. So when I reached his school, I met his classmate’s mother, Harry’s mother. I asked her if she knew anything about Netish..and sad to say, what my son told me almost 100% right..he didn’t lie to me, but he got his fact twisted. Harry’s mom told me that last week Friday, Netish and the family had an accident somewhere at Jalan Pahang, KL. The car they were in was hit by a lorry, and Netish’s mom was perished in the accident.

I was really stunned when Harry’s mom confirmed the news to me as I never expect it to be right. I rather son lied about it. Netish and the father were injured, but they survived from the accident.

I’m still sad. Just thinking about Netish makes my heart cried. I remember, when I sent Isaac to school, he will be greeted by Netish in the class. Netish really like to play Isaac, and even though it was harsh sometimes, but he stills loved to be with my son. At a very tender age of 5 years old, Netish lost his mama and will have no chance to get the loves from her anymore. I know he is still small and doesn’t really understand about life and death yet, but don’t you think he will looks for his mama at home when he cannot see her around?????? Just thinking about his condition makes me cry in the car… I know it is Friday today, but my excitement gone the moment I knew about Netish. I don’t know where exactly he is now as the family has shifted out from the previous house. Isaac teacher told me that, the family shifted to Jinjang and with the confirmation from the teacher, Isaac won’t be seeing Netish anymore. I seriously don’t know what to think now..but I hope Netish’s family will be strong to face the future ahead them. I also hope Netish will understand one day that his mama didn’t deliberately leave him to live without a mother in this world. May the mother’s soul will rest in peace..Amen..

25 comments:

BrokenSatellite said...

makes you realize how short life can be,right?

anything can happen.

aish. emotional trus sy...

cicak said...

It is hard for children to face stuff like this.
I can't imagine how hard it is to explain.

Gosh it is hard to be a parent. Chayo-chayo KD

Ann said...

astagaaaa ksiannya

Lab papa said...

I'm lost for word...

AngeL BeaR said...

sad...my prayer goes to little Netish. =(

I also received a bad news this evening. My bf told me that his cousin (both husband and wife were my seniors in secondary school) had passed away yesterday - due to a car accident also. He leaves behind his wife and 3 kids, which the youngest is only few months old.

Sad to know that how easy life come and goes...rite? uhuhuhu...

Mummy Zuan said...

sedih nya...life is short,enjoy and treasure it while you can...

♥ AnnieMing ♥ said...

kesian.. adui gia.. hmm.. pity him..

Deana E said...

this is so sad..

LonTugi said...

life is really short... fate can be so damn cruel...

izanazuani said...

Tears drop while reading this post. Although, I'm not yet a mother, I'm going to be soon or after. This is not something that they've planned.

Hope we all get the morale, appreciate the loved ones while we still can, u'll never know what will happen next.

Little Inbox said...

My heart sink when I read this. :(

Mama Mia said...

My deepest sympathy to Netish..

May his mom soul's rest in peace,Amen

chegu carol said...

may Netish mom rest in peace. :(

Choc Mint Girl said...

So tragic... May her soul rest in peace...

Ida Athanazir said...

was about to come with Most Scariest things in life, to me, the top of the list is definitely 'losing ur loved ones'

sorry ...

Gallivanter said...

That is really really sad, we must do everything that we can while we're still alive to appreciate the ones we love.

I lost my dad when I was 9 and still haven't recovered, instead, I embraced the pain.

JPP Papa said...

Kesian tu budak kan. Kecik2 sudah terasa teda mommy. duuuui gia. Condolonce to Netish family. :(

Just said...

It reminds me of my bro's dear friend back in his primary school time. The friend passed away caused by accident! Kesian betul. Until now, whenever we refreshed about our childhood, mesti tersebut pasal dia jg.

sweet-girlicious said...

ooh my so sad.......

nisha said...

Oh, how bad i feel just imagining the incident and the way you expressed it.. so heart-breaking.. tears have filled up my eyes, kudusmama :(..

But you know its all what god wants and am sure, her son will understand this some day.. but now hes too small will miss his mamma.. hope god gives him enough courage to face the reality once he is aware of it, and may his mammas soul rest in peace..

I came over to tell you if you have some time, do pick up the tags and awards i got for you on the latest two posts on my blog.. take care dear, you will get over the incident too.. :-)

KaDusMama said...

To all ~ Thanx for the comments! Lets hope Netish will be able to cope his future without his mom with him..! It wont be easy for him, but lets hope for the best..!
And to the late mom, may her soul rest in peace..
For us, who still live to see our day, lets cherish and love our beloved family who is still around us..don't wait until it is too late to show them our love..!

Nick Phillips said...

Oh man! My heart goes out to Netish. It's not going to be easy for him to understand why mommy has gone away ...

Nessa said...

Sedihnya sia baca pasal mummy si Netish ni :*( May her soul RIP.

KaDusMama said...

Nick & Nessa ~ Hope Netish will understand one day.. :(

emelda said...

I hope Netish is doing ok.

May the mom soul rest in piece