The adventure of my second pregnancy

Why I want to tell about my second pregnancy?? Because it is more adventure than my first one mah! I hope nobody will become scared or terrified after reading this post.

My second pregnancy was a planned one. My son was already two years old when I had a very strong feeling to have another baby. One attempt and I managed to get pregnant. LUCKY me!

I was hoping my pregnancy will be as smooth as sea breeze, but NO..It was not as what I was hoping for. It was my third week of pregnancy that I knew I was pregnant (5 days before my actual menses..hehee semangat check mah!!). But I don’t believe the Home Kit Test, I’ve checked another 5 times to confirm whether I was really pregnant! I even went to see my Gynae to confirm it. That’s how paranoid I was to make sure I’m really pregnant that time. What to do, no sign of pregnancy at all. No morning sickness, no painful boobs, still small waist (24inch only oh) and no nothing.

Anyway I only experience my first sign of pregnancy in my 7th week of pregnancy. I started to feel dizzy every morning that I lost appetite to eat anything. Well, I only can eat spicy nasi lemak I think. Hehee My morning sickness will strike either in early morning or late evening which was bad because I had to go to work. I throw up almost every morning that my yellowish bile liquid or whatever it is, was happy to make an exit through my esophagus. Feel like want to mati saja every morning muntah. So this vomiting episode lasted until the fifth month of my pregnancy. I was really suffering that time.

There was one day (5 months pregnant) I was craving to eat ‘Cucur Udang’. If only you can imagine the craving power, The I MUST EAT CUCUR UDANG feeling!!!! I asked my younger sister to go to the nearby shop to buy me the CUCUR UDANG ADABI. She told me “Ish!! Malas lah!” Since I want to eat it very badly, I went to the shop myself. Little that I know there will be an accident happens. I was walking down to the shop and didn’t see the hole in front of me. Oh yeah!! My kaki masuk the hole and I fell really hard on the road. Siap tegolek lagi! GOD!!! I was really scared that time. I went up and saw my elbow, palms and toes were bleeding. All I can think was, my baby. But BODOH me, I still went to the shop and bought the cucur!! Bodoh or not, you think?? When I reached home, I told my sister that I fell. Seeing my bleeding hand, she was really shocked! Her fault lah didn’t help me kan! I was tormenting her and make her feel really bad and guilty as hell that time! Hahahaa I keep showing her my injuries and telling her the vivid details on how I fell on the road. With a sad face, I told her, I hope nothing bad will happen to my baby! Of course she was blaming herself lah. She kept saying I ‘kempunan’ want to eat cucur. And she had the guilty face all day!

Luckily nothing happened to my baby (daughter). I went to do a check-up the next day and Doctor told me, everything is OK! FUH!! After that incident, whenever I feel like I want to eat something, my sister will be happy to help me to go the nearby shop! Ekekee

This photo taken when i was 7 months ++ pregnant, I was fat like a cow when i was 9 months pregnant! ekeke

That’s not all the injury I had during my pregnancy. In my third trimester (1 week before my due date), I was checking the water in my radiator when the front hood suddenly fell on my head. PUNYA MAIN SAKIT!!!!!!!! But I can only managed to say "OUCH!!". The second blood starting to drip from my head, I knew the injury was not goin to be good! Hubby was not around (he was attending a function that time), all people in my office already went back. There were only two of our general workers that time. I cover my head with my white cardigan, called the workers to check the severity of my injury. With a calm face, one of the workers, Shaidulla, told me it was only a minor scratch on my head. He helped me to clean the blood and put a handyplast on the injury.

So ok lah, I drove back home after that. My head was pounding that time. It was really hurt. Kepala kena hempap you know!!! It was half way home when I adjusted the handyplast on my head, sekali GUSHHHHH, blood punya main banyak on my face. I knew it was not just a scratch on my head. I thought I must have torn my head and my brain was going to pop out soon. Hehehe negative thinking betul! One hand on my steering and one hand holding the cardigan on my head, I managed to reach home without any other obstruction. Ya lah..who knows I banged other people’s car..one hand driving in the heavy jam mah!

Wah!! So long already my entry kah?? hehe nevermind lah..continue story.. I reached home with a blood soaked cardigan. Can you imagine my In-Laws reaction?? Hahahaa I was soooooo calm opening our house door. FIL and MIL was having dinner that time. Both of them were really shocked and horrified setengah mati that time. Hehehee I didn’t show any emotion la. Muka selamba answered them that the hood fell on my head! My MIL urged me to see doctor. I told her, I’ll check the injury first, if it needs a doctor, then I will see the doctor then! I went to bathroom to wash the blood. Uiyooo..it was crazy. Blood covering the whole floor in my bathroom. Punya main banyak darah!!! I told sis about the injury, and she forced me to see doctor that night. I punya jahat.. scold her some more, asked her who is going to drive me to the doctor? (actually my MIL can drive but I totally forgot about her…ekekeke). End up, sis companied me to the nearby clinic and help me to hold the towel on my head. When I reached the clinic, the Doctor who checked my head grimaced when she saw my head. Yep!! It wasn’t a scratch. I tore my head. Hahahaaa (eh why I’m laughing here???). That night, I received 4 stitches after Doctor jabbed my head!! Fuhhhhh…nasib baik I cepat go to clinic..if not no more blood already!

The next day, I still go to work for one last day. I took my maternity leave early mah. My long leave was enough for me to get the rest for 'kepala bocor' recovery. So what you think?? Adventure or not my second pregnancy? Hehe wait until I tell you about my second delivery. Lagi horrifying!!

It's AMAZING!!

Now my son has a beautiful smile again. No more injured gum, no more ripped lip (though there is still 1 shaky tooth). HAPPY nya me..

*I never know that kind of injury can heal really fast..amazingnya!!

Journey to work

I'm sure everybody has their own story to tell about their journey to work..Crazy Jam la, office 100km away from home lah, and others. I have my story too..Today punya story lah kira..

Just look at the photo..What will you feel when early in the morning, you were driving to work and you met so many 'stupikkk' Q' Jumper driver on the road. I really hate these people. Macam lah dorang saja mau pigi kerja. I have to punch my card too mah. Usually when i drove myself to office (except for monday), i sure will curse this people to hell for jumping Q suka-suka. Habis i memaki sendiri-sendiri inside my car. For sure, i don't give way to this people. Kalau berani langgar lah my car! Touchwood!! So far belum ada lagi berani lah...

This mobile crane took his sweet time to turn , robbed 5minutes of my precious time

My office which is roughly about 11km from my house (Supposedly i can reach office within 15 - 20mins) has many obstructions too. With the Q' jumper delaying at least 3 minutes of my time, i also have trailers, mobile crane, small lorry loaded with sooooo many things that kasi lambat me reached office. Sakitnya hati to drive car at 10km/hour! It's like forever baru sampai office.

After the trailer, lorries and don't know what the heck type of transportations causing my Blood pressure to increase, i have to endure the craziness of the road to my office.

See bah the photo..MATI OH drive on the road like that. If you think its not that bad, nope..you are wrong..IT IS REALLY REALLY BAD. See the hole..habis tekubur your tyre during rainy day if you drive kancil kah, kelisa, or other small car.... The holes are really really deep..i have to drive 0km/hour to pass this area saja. Though the crazy road is only 100m to the front, its enough to make you crazy because you will be bounced up and down inside your car. (My car's shaft patah before because of the crazy lubang-lubang)

So the supposedly 20minutes drive to office become 40minutes pulak. Otak pun jadi 'mengong' after almost two years driving like this. Who won't kan? And of course, today my punch card 'MERAH'. Benci!! I was late for 3 minutes, all because of the bengong mobile crane..

Nasib baik i have something waiting for me in the office that can make me smileeeee and feel better after the difficult endurance to reach office. Bet anybody will feel the same like me if they have something special waiting for them..

Somebody gave me this chocolate..heheeee

TADAAAAA..a box of chocolate (FERREEERRROOO ROCHER)..All the craziness in my morning were soon forgotten after i ate one of this delicious chocs..Heheheeee I guess i have to stock-up few boxes of Ferrero Chocs to keep me sane lah like this.

"Senyuman Darlie' again...

Last night brought son to see dentist to 'CABUT' his damaged tooth.. after 20mins waiting, Dr called him to go inside. Kesian him, seeing all the equipment made him really terrified. He hold my hand punya lah kuat. Like he want to cabut saja rasa. Of course I thought he was going to Scream and cry, nasib baik he didn't. He still try to be brave infront of me and hubby. If he scream and cry lah, i think i will pretend to faint and let husband take care the crying business.

Anyway Doctor checked his tooth and tell us a very wonderful news!!!! The news is better than i strike number at Magnum.

"Hmmm..gigi dia goyang saja, tapi takde masuk ke dalam. Tak payah cabut ni" Dr. Haniza said

"Takut dia gigit benda keras, nanti gigi patah susah. Takut dia makan gigi tu". Me said (In semenanjung slang..hahahaha buruknya rasa)

"Tak, kalau goyang macam ni, gigi tak akan patah. Banyak orang yang aksiden, gigi goyang sekejap, lepas 1 -2 minggu, dah tak goyang dah" Dr again

"Really?? so tak payah cabut lah???" Me sooo gembira

"Kalau nak pun boleh juga, tapi kesian lah gigi baru hanya akan tumbuh dia umur 7 atau 8 tahun" Dr again. I try to imagine my son with missing one front tooth for the coming four years but i failed to imagine lah.

"Oh!!! ok..takpe..kita tunggu another 2 minggu lah..if goyang juga, then cabut lah" Me ke'happy'an

Dr. Haniza gave me a big smile when she say "Iya tak payah cabut sekarang, sayang kalau cabut".

So if you were me, mesti lah happy tahap kambing gurun kan..!! At least for the time being my son still can give me his 'Darlie smile'.

Adakah muka traumatized macam nie???

If you think my son was traumatized by what had happend to him, nah!! Sikit pun tidak. When i reached home yesterday, he shows me his kungfu action again. Ai!! pening kepala..because i have to shout at him so that he will stop jumping. Headache kan??

Daughter with muka 'kuih pau' (saja put her photo..nda kan Son saja famous)

So begitu lah the story. I hope son tooth or root, or gum or whatever holding the tooth will be tighten and gigi not going to fall. I will be very sad if he is going to lose it..

Bad bad Mommy

I was at 1-Utama having my dinner last nite when my MIL called Hubby...Cing cong cing cong (they talked) and I knew it was bad because from hubby expression, he totally showing me a sign that bad thing had happend. After they finished talking, i asked him what's wrong. And he told me my son has ripped his lips after he fell on the floor while jumping and doing his kung fu action. Punya lah!!!!! Can you imagine my feeling as a mother when i heard about it!! Panic, worry, sad, all sort of emotions were in my heart yesterday. And of course i cannot stop blaming myself for not being at home to care and protect my kids from any harm. If only i was at home that time, maybe i can prevent it from happening.

So when i reached home at 10.30pm, Son greeted me and hubby at the door by showing me his injury. I was really scared that he had completely ripped his lips and i've been imagining sort of bad thing while on the way back home. Thank GOD!!!!! The injury was not as bad as i have thought. After examinaning the extent of his injury, i thought, its ok..his lips will recover soon enough.

Then my helper disappoint me when she told me my son might lose 3 of his teeth. Arghhhh!! I am sooooo frustrated when i checked son's tooth one by one, he will need to extract one of his precious tooth today. The impact of his fall was soooooo hard that his central incisor can be wiggled back and forth now. I'm SAD lah!!! Son's tooth is still very nice mah..No cavity, its still very beautiful and now, he is going to lose it tonight...Ini lah bah kalau jajal melumpat saja kerja! Now mommy yang very sad..i want to cry already thinking about cabut gigi part.

Well..as i was very sad last night, i've been lecturing son for hours on how his behaviour causes him trouble. And i'm so bad to tell my son that Doctor need to cut his mouth off because it is badly injured. My son cannot stop crying and ask me how he is going to eat and talk if he has no mouth anymore. Because i'm sooooo geram already that time, i told him that Doctor might cut his nose also because he didn't take care his nose properly (the fall also bruised his nose). I'm a really bad mother!! I got satisfaction hearing him cry and tell me he doesn't want Doctor to cut his nose because he won't be able to smell anything if he has no more nose. Guess what i told him?? I told him to use his ear to smell! Hehe jahatnya me ni..Kesian son blank blank when i told him to smell use his ear.

Anyway..after I calmed down, i just hugged Son for minutes because i feel so guilty for what i had told him. Instead of comforting him, i lecture and scare him pulak..Kesian!! He slept earlier than usual after i brushed his teeth and changed him to his pyjama. Still feel guilty until now..!

And then at 12.38 midnight, i heard our house grille being open by somebody. Of course i'm worried lah..who knows burglar masuk our house kah (TOUCHWOOD!!!) When i went to chek it out, my MIL was out to check something. So i tell hubby and we went to follow her. Damn!! the pipe at the upper level of our apartment burst again. Benci!! When the pipe burst, we have to walk melakat against the wall because if we didn't, sure basah kuyup. Kambeng betul!! This morning my high heel also basah masuk air. Son's shoe also basah! Really hate when this kind thing happend early in the morning when i just started my day.

Banjir already our floor..kambeng!!!

Waterfall from fourth floor

Well forget about the waterfall at my apartment, tonight i'm going to bring son to see dentist to extract his tooth. Hopefully i'm not going to cry when Dentist pull his tooth. *SAD*

Today is 'Qing Ming'

Today, in the Chinese Calender indicating Perayaan Qing Ming. It is the day the Chinese will pray for the deceased family members. Well, plus + minus 10 days of the actual date actually. (Resource : 5XMOM).

This year I didn’t follow my hubby back to his hometown to pray to his Grandma and Greatgrandma. If I follow pun, bukan I pray pun..just look here, look there only (I’m Christian mah). So konon I didn’t follow la because my son was not feeling well. (alasan tidak mau ikut)

If you ever seen the Chinese burning all sort of things made from paper like Car, Computer, Hamper, Beer, or sexy girls…or lots and lots of Money, all the stuffs are for the family member who is in the ‘other’ side of the world. That day, I read in the online news about this Son wanted to send his dad a Petrol Station complete with the pump attendant. His reason, he sent his dad a car before, so dad need petrol to run the car. Where to find petrol station ‘there’? So anak yang baik ini pun hantar lah Satu petrol station for his dad. I’m wondering what station he send la..could it be Shell? Esso? Petronas? hehehehe

(Photo of beer and stout made from paper pinjam from 5Xmom)

But I’m not going to talk about this 'Day' in detail actually, because I pun don’t really understand about the Prayer to the Dead. I only know a lil bit of it. What I want to tell is..nasib baik I didn’t follow hubby that day! ahahahahaa…It was flooded at one area on the way back to KL, then Crazy Jammed lagi! Fuhh…It’s tiring to sit in the car for 5-6 hours oh…

Bidor, Perak flooded after very heavy downpour

Last year, We took almost 7 hours to reach home because of the terrible jam. Padahal the journey should only be in 3 hours. Additional 4 hours, what to do in the car oh! With small baby daughter crying to be fed (masa tu i'm still breastfeeding my daughter and i was driving..so how to feed?), cannot stop at the highway R&R because no parking (tooooooo many people want to pee), car not moving at the highway, son screaming in the car because he was too bored sitting in the car; like very stress kan want to go back like that? Hehe..so thats probably why i didn't go back to hubby hometown this year Qing Ming. Hehehe

Anyway, to us, the non-chinese (and different religion) might be curious why The Chinese is praying to the dead family members. It’s their way to show their respect and love. So us shouldn’t say anything about it. Just respect them for that.. (Padahal i baru have an argument with my husband about it! hahaha)

I was fooled on April Fool

Yesterday was April Fool Day right? Punya BIKIN PANAS..

Sure everybody have their own story of April Fool Day. I don't prank people ah! Just not interested to make people life miserable for a second.

So my story yesterday was like this..

During lunch time i received an SMS from dad which really make me panicked. Can you imagine he wrote his sms like this ~

"Apa kamu buat? Jangan tekejut, ini bukan April Fool punya cerita. Apa la nasib saya ni, sepanjang malam di rumah pun tiba-tiba kena tangkap polis. Sekarang saya di kaunter balai polis kena soal siasat. Adakah orang buat fitnah, konon saya g rogol anak si R***N"

(What are you doing? Do not get shocked, this is not April Fool story. Why i'm so bad luck, i've been staying at home every night and suddenly can get arrested by police. I'm now at the police station counter for interrogation. Somebody accused me raping Mr. R***N's daughter)

When i got his sms, my heart was really like its going to drop on the floor. I cannot imagine somebody can accused my dad doing something really bad like that. Of course i know it was April Fool day yesterday, but as my dad already mentioned it was not a AF Prank, sure i became worry lah. Who wasn't kan?

I tried to call dad few times, but i cannot get through his line. I became more worry because my dad doesn't usually off his phone unless he was outstation. So i tried to call my mom. NO answer! call again! NO answer! Darn!! already panic like hell that time. I called my younger brother, cannot get through...called the other number...Tootttttt! Tootttttt!! ......

"Hello!!" Brother answer nonchalantly

"Ui!!! mana bapa??? Apa hal sampai boleh masuk balai polis?????????" me shouting to my brother

"Apa ni??????" Brother confused

"Bapa di balai polis kah??" I scold brother again

"BUDUH!!!! mana ada..tu nah dia tu" Bro told me

"Silaka!!!! Panggil bapa sekarang!!!!!!" Me relieved and angry at the same time

Bro passed the phone to dad.....

"kah! kah! kah! kah!" Dad laughed out very-very loud

"Silaka ko sana!! Kurang asam!! Bongoh!!!" me screaming at my dad

"Muahahahahaha! kotoh! April Fool Bah!!" Dad had the guts to tell me that!

"SILAKA!!! buduh juga mau buat prank macam ni" Me still marah

"Wakakakakakaka..jangan lah marah Dong!! Mau kasi kena, mesti mau kaw-kaw" dad said (Mind you, he gave me few types of laughter somemore yesterday..)

"BUDUH!! bongoh!!!" I cannot stop saying this two words oh yesterday! hehe

Can you imagine my dad can think this kind of prank to us (the children) and also his sister? My cousin did mentioned about the prank in her blog too.

Luckily i managed to contact my brother first. My sister kena worse than me, my dad even crying and being so dramatic when my sister called him. Kurang asam or not you think?

Next time, i should be prepared for April Fool lah..cannot always be fooled on April Fool Day!

Word of the day.. Buduh = Bongoh = Stupid Kotoh = Serve you right Silaka = Kurang asam = Damn

Somebody peep on me while i shower!

It is Monday again! Aiya!! Time really fast huh? The weekend I had not even enough for me to get the rest I should have. I wish I can sleep until 10am but that’s never going to happen. Yesterday, at 8.30am, both kids already wide awake. Daughter was screaming asking for her milk and son wanted to watch his 'Sky High' DVD. So how to sleep until later morning oh! By the time house work was completely done, I was more tired than I go to work everyday. Blink..blink..blink..it’s already Monday and here I am, sleepy and tired on Monday afternoon. It’s only half day working and I’m so no energy already! Adoiii!! This morning..i got a rude shocking greeting while I took my shower. Tengah sabun-sabun, suddenly I saw something moving at the ‘drainer?? (sia pun nda tau apa nama tu lubang tempat air mengalir keluar)’..I took a while to observe the moving object which likes a tentacle. At the same time, I took a bucket of water kasi siram-siram the ‘thing’. Sekali………….CHIUT!!!!! lipan @ Centipede came out from the ‘lubang’..!!! apa lagi me..with my controlled scream, jumped inside my pail (incase the centipede decided to climb on my leg), and like a ‘sot @ crazy’ damsel in distress called my husband who was at the kitchen that time. Luckily he can hear me and came to rescue me. I asked him to get me a ‘pot’ of hot boiling water and use it to kill the centipede!! Eee macam kejam pulak kill the poor centipede kan? But I’m too scared to think other method mah. Only can think of hot water as a way to get rid of the creature. The time I saw the centipede, I have a thought taking picture of it tau! Hahaha Sure can blog mah! Hehe Nasib baik I was still penuh with sabun-sabun that time, if not, sure Centipede is in my blog already! Ekekeeee Ada-ada saja bah kan…

'Karipap' from Puchong

Wah! Today my boss is suddenly so generous with me. He gave me Curry Puff oh! And mind you, I’m the only one got to eat the delicious curry puff. He bought two, and gave me one.

Big Delicious CurryPuff

“TT, you sudah pernah makan karipap harga RM1.50 kah?” Boss asked

“Huh??” I almost want to tell him I ate a RM5.50 curry puff before..but tidak sampai hati pulak want to tell him. So smile saja..

“Nah! I bought this karipap somewhere at Puchong..Banyak sedap!” Boss said.

“Uh la la! TQ very much!” I’m so happy because I was sooo verrrrrrrrry hungry just now.

Why I’m the only one get karipap sedap itu? Because as this one quote, “Buat Baik di Balas baik” (If you do a good deed, you will receive the same goodness from other people? Hahaa betul kah nie?). Usually when my boss want to look for something to eat, he will come to me for biscuits, chocolate lah and whatever snacks I have with me. I have a cabinet where i keep my 'makanan ' mah. Maybe thats why he gave me one as an exchange of my other biscuits next time. Haha!

Ok lah! Ok lah! I Want to go off from office already. So That the end of story of good deed being repaid with Puchong CurryPuff. Happy Weekend everybody!

Painter found dead with burn marks - The Star

Celaka lah the people who langgar the tiang electric somewhere near our office today..for the whole day we have no internet connection, no phone line, no fax line. All disconnected because of the stupid people who was so blind ramming tiang yang begitu besar..see i want to update blog while working also cannot..hehe now only can update..

Anyway, our office received a very saddening and shocking news when we have just started our day. At 9.45am, one of our lorry drivers told us (the staffs) that somebody has passed away and it was not in a really nice way of dying. One of our varnishers had just died. The news about his death was all over the paper like Sin Chew Paper, China Press and also The Star Online.

Since nobody really knew the causes of his death, there were few speculations made on how he died: 1. He suicides by hanging himself (teruk lah who told us this! Definitely not true) 2. He was sick (could be) 3. He met an accident, at home (Maybe!)

The post mortem result is already out. But we still have no clue on the mystery surrounding his death. Maybe family member know lah..but we don't!!! Kesian oh!!!! Though I barely know him (I only know his name and face through his IC. You know lah, I’m the person who submits his name to the site he was working at), I’m hoping his family will be strong enough to face this hard reality of losing their beloved one.